My Family Culture

I enjoy packing for trips. A friend of mine jokes with me often because I can pack for a week's trip in about 15 minutes and I usually pack at the last minute. When I imagined packing for a trip in which I could take only three things with me, it took me a little bit longer to determine the three most precious items that represented me and my culture. To leave everything behind can be such a determent.

First, I chose a family picture. Of course, anyone would, I would guess. We have had many family pictures taken over the years; however, as we have all grown up and raised our own families, we have not taken time to take a family portrait lately. Holding this picture would offer me support and memories to guide me through such a catastrophe as to leave my homeland.

Secondly, I would pack my bible. With the grace of my Heavenly Father, I know that I am always protected and any occurrences that I encounter are meant to be on my life journey. The faith that I hold in God is what guides me through life experiences, whether they are positive or negative.

In closely reflecting on the last item to pack for this journey, I chose my Girl Scout sash. Most people are familiar with Girl Scouts and Boy Scouts. Troops of young girls and boys are created in which they participate in adventures and projects to learn life skills and strengthen their persistence. My Girl Scout sash, full of merit badges, would remind me of the camaraderie and relationships I had with the other girls in my troop over the years. The sash represents my determination and success in work and service projects.

If I were told that I could only take one item with me, I would be even more distraught. In this event I would certainly take my Bible, as it is the cornerstone of my existence and all I have ever known in faith and unconditional love.   

One insight this exercise provided is that we must hold true to our core being and not be so wrapped up in commercialism and having possessions. This is a revolving lesson for many people I know, including me.